You have no idea what he’s going to do with those pics, who he’s going to show them to, or where they might end up.
When it comes to texting, it’s always a good idea to be the first to have to go.
When I’m not hanging out with my Spawn, I’m happily sharing my dating experiences and offering advice and trying to control the chaos that comes with being human.
Technological advancements in the past decade or so have hugely improved the frequency and speed at which we are able to communicate.
Otherwise, you’re making it way too easy for him and he might not appreciate you for the person you are inside, only the person you could be in bed.
On a whole, the rules for texting a guy you like are similar to the rules for dating.
Of course, when you do ask him out, give him a three day advance (the same he would need to give you) so that he can adjust his schedule if needed, or not be on short notice and too exhausted to go out with you. You can give him little flirty compliments or tell him how good looking he is; you can even tease him just slightly by telling him about the hot new dress you bought this weekend. No “I’m so wet” texts, nothing saying you’re touching yourself, nothing that would put you to shame should anyone read his phone.
Aside from naked pics, there’s also the question of “sexting.” Is it okay to have sex by text? If you’ve already had sex with him and are warming him up in the hopes of having sex again tonight, then you can sext him.
But especially in the first few weeks of a potential relationship, it’s important to wait for him to initiate the conversation.
It isn’t always as clear cut as it seems, and, of course, every man is different, but here are 7 guaranteed rules of texting that are universal no matter what kind of guy you have the hots for.
If you and a guy exchange numbers, don’t be the one to text first.
Unless you and your guy have been dating and sleeping together for a long time and you’re now trying to get out of a romantic slump, there’s no need to send him naked pics.
In fact, sending a guy you like naked pics of yourself will not only give him the wrong impression of you (and believe me, it will give him the wrong impression), but it also leaves you extremely vulnerable.