” Hint: That’s not a good question to ask a woman online (or ever, really). Stay away from sex talk until you’ve built up a rapport with a girl.Our top nine questions to ask girls focus on personality traits, not sexual positions.Starting random conversations and getting the other person to open up is a skill, which you will have to acquire, or polish! - How many children do you want to have, and when do you want to have them? - Would you like to change your surname after marriage or stick to your maiden name? - Have you/would you drop everything at a moment's notice if someone you cared about needed your help? - What do you do to cheer yourself up if you have had a bad day? - If you could be in a movie, which one would you want to be in, as which character, and why? - Which is the cutest/funniest/sweetest/weirdest compliment you have received?In the meantime, here is something to get you started...- Do you believe in making compromises for a relationship/marriage, and to what extent? - If you had to choose to live with someone who truly loves you, but you don't love him back, or to live alone for the rest of your life loving someone who doesn't love you, who would you choose? - What genres do you prefer in - movies, music and books? - Can you tell me about an incident in your life that is close to your heart? - What's the one thing you have done that you regret? - Tell me one thing that you have done/accomplished, that makes you proud of yourself? - Which was the best/most stimulating conversation you have ever had? - Would you expect forgiveness if you cheated on your partner?Some online daters go for something cheesy and playful like “Do you believe in love at first site?” Others try something more probing like “How long was your last relationship?This is a fun question for online daters looking to go outside the standard routine and engage in a more playful line of questioning.
You can find out a lot about a person’s ideals and aspirations by getting them to describe someone they hope to emulate.
Plus, after she tells you she can juggle beer bottles or walk on her hands, you have a natural opening for a date by replying, “I’ve got to see this in person!
” Questions about drinks (or food) are a good way to share likes or dislikes with a date prospect.
Keep it clean, fellas, if you want to keep her interest.
This is a good opening question for online dating because it’s open-ended and personal.