If you don’t find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), or submit a question for advice. ” And while I don’t believe in hard and fast rules about relationship timetables, I do think it’s healthy to think about your long-term goals — keeping in mind if/when you might want children, an issue that’s more pertinent, of course, for women in their 30s and up — and whether your relationship is moving at a pace that feels right for . It’s time to have a discussion with your significant other and consider moving on if it’s clear you’re nowhere near being on the same page.
“ It is also reported that before the two started dating, Jaguar was Lulu Diva’s manager, whenever she was in Kenya for a show.You might be thinking that I got it all wrong — that the reason we never fought was because we were so compatible. For whatever reason, my boyfriend's attitude toward our relationship was like one long, monotone recording of him muttering, "Just along for the ride." He didn't literally say that, but he might as well have.This is what my inner thoughts looked like most of the time: I eventually broke up with him up out of sheer boredom.“It’s been four months and he hasn’t said ‘I love you’ yet! ” And: “It’s been three years and he still hasn’t proposed! After the jump, see how your own relationship compares to what’s considered “normal” (if you dare). Mentioning a Future Together Between 4 and 9 months.These tend to be casual talks about how each couple envisions at least a short-term future together — planning a vacation a few months down the line, talking about spending the holidays together, making plans to introduce each other to their respective families.2.