So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.
The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from some girls here in Medellin.
On the contrary, I respect them and believe that no matter where you go, you’ll find extraordinary women. I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it’s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing.
I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word.
I have been dating Colombian women for over 8 years now.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.