Not only that but he has a daughter this girls age and his daughter is totally uncomfortable with this.He also has a 13 yr old son from another marriage who will barely spend any time with him now for the same reason. When there are so many fish in the sea why would a man pick the one that will cause so much drama in his life and his childrens?In my eyes you are dating a man in Mid Life Crisis with no future whatsoever!!!!!My husband 43 left me and our 2 little angels for a 21 year old and he's already saying that it's not serious and that he still loves me. Please be careful girls and if your situation is like mine you are hurting alot of people!!!ALSO READ: Confessions: Should I keep this old man’s baby? They are just responsibilities that he already took care of. While I was ready to hold it all up and be there for this 40 year old, the unexpected happened. He never felt jealous, was never possessive, lost his temper or even shared his fears and hopes on life. Then they will go on and on about those songs and how they listened to them in those olden days. He was nostalgic about the good things he did in his youth but he can't do them now. It broke my heart to know that my 40 year old man doesn't fancy babies. While a man in his thirties will fight for his woman and protect her with his life, the case is different with a forty year old. They will even send you videos of heart breaking music like . At some point,he kept complaining about our age difference. Poor me who was only 26 and without even a bicycle learned about all this through friends. I don't know what your relationship with this man is but if you're still in love with him, I would go for it.
Forget her quick and find someone at least within 5 years your age.I'm 23 and recently stood in my sisters wedding and met her husbands best man for the first time, I only ever knew of him and never knew his age (54).From the moment we were introduced(the day before the wedding) he was costly in my way and we kept laughing and smiling at each other, I was just drawn to him.There is no judgement on age, race, religion, etc on my part.Society molds us into acting upon their beliefs which is just wrong.